That is an enigma that confronts us once in a while.

The question does not relate to our standing or relevance in society.

Nor does it search for an identity among people. Or in the company of living and non-living environments, the universe, and the celestial world.

It is just establishing and developing the authenticity of the Self.

It is an earnest attempt to find life under the true Self and personal values rather than assigned by external demands of society.

The exercise involves discarding the false Self that reflects our behaviour as others perceive it. In this exploration, we may see that the self-image created was false or fake to please others.

The authenticity concept arises from the insight that humans generally live or exist inauthentic ways.

Social relationships, cultural values, and norms construct an inauthentic Self. The recovery of the authentic Self requires a radical reexamination of cultural contexts, habitual lifestyles, and ways of thinking. It also involves a positive progression of authenticity across time.

Authenticity is a feeling that develops with its persuasive use; being true to the Self and seeking what is morally good help create sincere and natural authenticity of the Self.

-by Promod Puri